1. Men don't give women their space!
How many men out there do you know of that are with a women and don't give them their space? I know plenty of guys out there, including my ex boyfriend. Men for some reason always need to know what their woman is doing. They need to know who they are going to be with, where they are going, and what time they are going to be coming home. Wow, talk about a nut job! A woman shouldn't have to do any of those things. If a woman wants to go out for the night with the girls, or some old friends she should be able to do that and not be asked a million questions before she leaves. And don't you hate it when you are out, and they keep calling (well nowadays texting) you asking how the night is going. Seriously, you can't wait until she gets home to tell you how her night went. My ex boyfriend always would be texting me while I'm out with my friends asking me what time I was going to be home, if I was going to be out late, who i was with, was I going anywhere else after the place I was orginally at, etc. At first I was okay with him doing this, but after awhile he would do this EVERY single time I went out, and it got annoying. How about when your phone goes off and you're in another room and he goes to get it and looks to see who is calling and texting you. Really buddy, you're really going to rush to get my phone to see who is calling me? That's the woman's phone and her own privacy in there. You don't see women doing that unless you think they're cheating on you but that is a different story. A woman needs her space. We give men their space, so why can't they give us ours? Is it just a male thing, or is there really something wrong with the men we're with that do this to us?
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control issues!
ReplyDeleteHonestly, I think it is an INSECURITY trait that most of the men we deal with have. Who knows why they have it, there are probably a whole bunch of different reasons, but still, that's no excuse. A person gains trust with their partner gradually and if there is no reason to not trust a partner then there should be no reason to stalk your partner and know every move they make. I agree with you about the suspicion of cheating, that's a whole different story. But if the guy or partner has no reason to be stalking your every move, then thats just plain ridiculous! I have dealt with guys like this and I just drop them like a brick in water.. GONE! I agree in giving space, it makes a realtionship healthy, so anybody that has control issues will probably never be in a real relationship unless they find a partner with the same control issues. Then they will be one big happy controlling family.
ReplyDeleteits called "TRUST".... If you dont have it then move on bc it will never work out between to poeple who dont know how to trust eachother... you can say you love eachother all u want and u may really love that person but seriously open your eyes... things will never change, trust issues only make metters worse... people stop being so nieve..
ReplyDeleteAs i just told you, sitting next to you, i've never once dated a guy that had these types of insecurities. I don't know HOW YOU DID IT. I would've told him to fuck himself a long ass time ago. No one is going to keep tabs on me. Hell, i don't even know what the heck i'm doing half the time, why should anyone else?! ;)
ReplyDeleteLove you, girl!
Wow I'm glad I'm not the only one. I can definatley relate to this. I hate it when they drill you with questions. Things like that are so unattractive.
ReplyDeleteI just wanted to touch on this little topic here, I do agree with ejnila up top where as insecuirty is an issue and in some guys this is a serious problem, sometimes even the word psycho is in call. At the same time I do also feel that if a guy is insecure then it is somewhat the girls fault for not doing her job to make her man secure. Some men just need a hella lot of reasurance. I personally feel that a girl should be able to go out and do her thing with her girls as should I with the boys . But on retrospect as Ejnila says that she will drop insecure guys like a brick...I will do ther very same, if I feel like I have to play 20 questions with a girl before she goes out then she is not for me and she obviously does not want to give me the reasurance I may need as the man in the relationship, if I have to play 20 questions or text numorously throughout her night, I cant trust her and i wont deal with that. So goodbye to her. Wont torture myself.
ReplyDeletei agree... for the most part but like i said before, relationships are based on trust... but the whole insecure part no.... i understand that yea everyone can have insecurities but... if too poeple are mean't to be then it will be,.... relationships are more than just to people liking eachother..... first u need a true friendship with that person.. then everything falls into place and they will be there through the good and the bad... if guys or girls cant deal with the partners through the worst then they dont deserve them at there best...
ReplyDeleteSome women are the same way. I've never been in a commited relashonship so I wouldn't know about the suffocating man but, I do see women alot always needing to know where their men are and who they are with.
ReplyDeleteThis is why I am Single!! SMH
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