5. Men always think they're right!
Why is it that men think they're right all the time? Is it an ego thing, which all men have in them? Or is it just to look cool in front of their friends and make us look like idiots? Well I've experienced this a lot with a couple of my ex-boyfriends. They always thought they were right even when they clearly were wrong. And they will argue they're right until you give up arguing with them. Seriously, no one's perfect in this world. Everyone is always going to be wrong about something no matter what it is. I just don't understand why men always have to be right? Us women never say we always have to be right. We say when we're wrong about something and we know we're not perfect human beings, so why can't men be like that? I also think it has to be with being the dominant one in the relationship. I think if a man doesn't think he's write that the woman is going to be the dominant one in the relationship, but that isn't how it should be. There shouldn't be a dominant person in a relationship. A relationship is based on compromising and working through things together. So for all you men out there, stop trying to be badasses and admit when you're wrong about stuff because guess what YOU'RE NOT ALWAYS RIGHT!
Monday, April 19, 2010
Men and Their Table Manners
4. Men don't have good table manners.
Maybe this is just one of the topics that bothers me the most and happens to me all the time, but men don't have good table manners. It's not polite when you're out on a date with your girlfriend, wife, etc and you're answering phone calls, and talking on the phone throughout the whole entire dinner. That's just plain inconsiderate. I always yell at my boyfriend when he answers the phone and talks to whoever he's talking. I always tell him I'm going to throw his phone across the restaurant if he doesn't hang up. Another thing is, yes we know you're men and love to burp and fart, but don't do it at the table when you're eating. We don't want to smell the nasty stench of your burps of farts. Seriously, how gross is that? You men have to realize that you need to have some kind of manners when you're out to dinner or even having a dinner at home. It's embarrassing for us to be with someone like that in public. If you need to fart or burp excuse yourself from the table. It's not that hard to do.
Maybe this is just one of the topics that bothers me the most and happens to me all the time, but men don't have good table manners. It's not polite when you're out on a date with your girlfriend, wife, etc and you're answering phone calls, and talking on the phone throughout the whole entire dinner. That's just plain inconsiderate. I always yell at my boyfriend when he answers the phone and talks to whoever he's talking. I always tell him I'm going to throw his phone across the restaurant if he doesn't hang up. Another thing is, yes we know you're men and love to burp and fart, but don't do it at the table when you're eating. We don't want to smell the nasty stench of your burps of farts. Seriously, how gross is that? You men have to realize that you need to have some kind of manners when you're out to dinner or even having a dinner at home. It's embarrassing for us to be with someone like that in public. If you need to fart or burp excuse yourself from the table. It's not that hard to do.
Tuesday, April 13, 2010
Men Don't Listen
3. Men don't listen.
Why don't men ever listen, especially when it comes to women? I don't understand when men talk to other men, they have their full attention to them, but when it comes to women, it goes in one ear and out the other. If i told my boyfriend about something important one day and asked him about it the next day he wouldn't even know what I'm talking about. I mean how hard is it to remember something? It's like they have an off button on their memory when a woman is talking to them. I'm not even talking about when we complain, because yes we complain a lot, I'm talking about just having a conversation with them and they don't even remember it hours from when it happened. All guys ever seem to be attentive to is food, money, sports and sex. If you're not talking about any of those things then they're not going to listen to you. But why? We listen to everything men are talking to us about. Whether it is about sports games, how much money they won when they went out or whatever else it may pertain to. But they can't listen to us when we have something to say to them. Sometimes I feel like I'm talking to a wall, no joke. It just goes to show how much men really care about women because they don't even listen to us more than half the time.
Why don't men ever listen, especially when it comes to women? I don't understand when men talk to other men, they have their full attention to them, but when it comes to women, it goes in one ear and out the other. If i told my boyfriend about something important one day and asked him about it the next day he wouldn't even know what I'm talking about. I mean how hard is it to remember something? It's like they have an off button on their memory when a woman is talking to them. I'm not even talking about when we complain, because yes we complain a lot, I'm talking about just having a conversation with them and they don't even remember it hours from when it happened. All guys ever seem to be attentive to is food, money, sports and sex. If you're not talking about any of those things then they're not going to listen to you. But why? We listen to everything men are talking to us about. Whether it is about sports games, how much money they won when they went out or whatever else it may pertain to. But they can't listen to us when we have something to say to them. Sometimes I feel like I'm talking to a wall, no joke. It just goes to show how much men really care about women because they don't even listen to us more than half the time.
Thursday, April 8, 2010
Men Don't Put Down The Toliet Seat!
2. Men never put down the toilet seat!
Why don't men ever put down the toilet seat when they're done using it? Does it really take that long to put down the seat? One word to describe this is; LAZY! Men are just pure lazy when it comes to using the bathroom. I think they're also being inconsiderate of others. Obviously, you're living with women whether it is your mother, sister, girlfriend, wife etc., so wouldn't you think it is common courtesy to put the seat done when you're done so they don't have to do it. Or what if you have family members over, or even a party and you leave the toilet seat up for the next person to use it? One, it doesn't look clean at all, and second it might gross the person who's using it next. I know for me when I see the toilet seat left up in my house I always yell at my dad to remember to put it down. I know men think they own everything but please you don't own the toilet. To all the men out there, all I'm saying is be a little bit more considerate of others when using the toilet. Try and remember something for once and put the seat down when you're done using it. It's not a hard concept!
Why don't men ever put down the toilet seat when they're done using it? Does it really take that long to put down the seat? One word to describe this is; LAZY! Men are just pure lazy when it comes to using the bathroom. I think they're also being inconsiderate of others. Obviously, you're living with women whether it is your mother, sister, girlfriend, wife etc., so wouldn't you think it is common courtesy to put the seat done when you're done so they don't have to do it. Or what if you have family members over, or even a party and you leave the toilet seat up for the next person to use it? One, it doesn't look clean at all, and second it might gross the person who's using it next. I know for me when I see the toilet seat left up in my house I always yell at my dad to remember to put it down. I know men think they own everything but please you don't own the toilet. To all the men out there, all I'm saying is be a little bit more considerate of others when using the toilet. Try and remember something for once and put the seat down when you're done using it. It's not a hard concept!
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Men Don't Give Women Their Space!
1. Men don't give women their space!
How many men out there do you know of that are with a women and don't give them their space? I know plenty of guys out there, including my ex boyfriend. Men for some reason always need to know what their woman is doing. They need to know who they are going to be with, where they are going, and what time they are going to be coming home. Wow, talk about a nut job! A woman shouldn't have to do any of those things. If a woman wants to go out for the night with the girls, or some old friends she should be able to do that and not be asked a million questions before she leaves. And don't you hate it when you are out, and they keep calling (well nowadays texting) you asking how the night is going. Seriously, you can't wait until she gets home to tell you how her night went. My ex boyfriend always would be texting me while I'm out with my friends asking me what time I was going to be home, if I was going to be out late, who i was with, was I going anywhere else after the place I was orginally at, etc. At first I was okay with him doing this, but after awhile he would do this EVERY single time I went out, and it got annoying. How about when your phone goes off and you're in another room and he goes to get it and looks to see who is calling and texting you. Really buddy, you're really going to rush to get my phone to see who is calling me? That's the woman's phone and her own privacy in there. You don't see women doing that unless you think they're cheating on you but that is a different story. A woman needs her space. We give men their space, so why can't they give us ours? Is it just a male thing, or is there really something wrong with the men we're with that do this to us?
How many men out there do you know of that are with a women and don't give them their space? I know plenty of guys out there, including my ex boyfriend. Men for some reason always need to know what their woman is doing. They need to know who they are going to be with, where they are going, and what time they are going to be coming home. Wow, talk about a nut job! A woman shouldn't have to do any of those things. If a woman wants to go out for the night with the girls, or some old friends she should be able to do that and not be asked a million questions before she leaves. And don't you hate it when you are out, and they keep calling (well nowadays texting) you asking how the night is going. Seriously, you can't wait until she gets home to tell you how her night went. My ex boyfriend always would be texting me while I'm out with my friends asking me what time I was going to be home, if I was going to be out late, who i was with, was I going anywhere else after the place I was orginally at, etc. At first I was okay with him doing this, but after awhile he would do this EVERY single time I went out, and it got annoying. How about when your phone goes off and you're in another room and he goes to get it and looks to see who is calling and texting you. Really buddy, you're really going to rush to get my phone to see who is calling me? That's the woman's phone and her own privacy in there. You don't see women doing that unless you think they're cheating on you but that is a different story. A woman needs her space. We give men their space, so why can't they give us ours? Is it just a male thing, or is there really something wrong with the men we're with that do this to us?
What Men Do Wrong
Hello my name is Stefanie Zarbock. I am currently a student at MacCormac College in downtown Chicago. My major is court reporting. I am starting a blog today on the topic of what men do wrong. Each blog i enter i will be talking about a certain topic on what men do wrong. Having a lot of girlfriends and hearing their problems and my own about men in their lives really inspired me to write about this topic. Every girl out there has had a guy out there that's done something wrong so why not write about it and let others hear what you have to say. This blog is to tell girls tell their stories they have about guys and to let their anger out. It's also to show that we may have the same problems with others when it comes to men and could help eachother out in their situations. I hope you enjoy reading and commenting on What Men Do Wrong!
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